This month’s Ask Coach Kathy’s question is about whether it’s okay to surprise her husband with the gift of touch.
I really want to book a couples massage for me and my husband for Valentine’s day.
He told me once that he would never be comfortable with someone else touching his body. That was years ago.
Do you think it’s okay if I surprise him with this gift of touch?
People do change their likes and dislikes over the years. However, if your husband once had a strong negative reaction to the idea of getting a massage, I would check in with him on this idea before you book it, and save a surprise gift for something you are confident he would like.
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