It’s easy to get caught up in the differences we have with our partners. We focus on the things that make us unique and forget to celebrate them. In this episode of Coach Kathy’s Clips, Kathy talks about how by making one change to the language we use, we can embrace those unique qualities in our mates […]
Do You Make Assumptions About Your Mate’s Thoughts?
My husband tells me I do something that drives him crazy. He says I make assumptions about what he is thinking and talk to him in statements. For example, he says I say, “So, you want to go out to eat,” or “You think I salt our food too much when cooking.” I’m just saying […]
Exploring the Seasons of a Relationship
Believe it or not, technically March is the beginning of spring. For some of us, it may feel like Mother Nature played a joke on us because when we look out the window, it looks like anything but spring. Couples go through four seasons in their relationship, just like we witness in nature. For the […]
“Surprise” – Recreating Memories For Your Mate
Recreate a memory for your mate and relive the experience. A friend’s husband did something so special, thoughtful, and romantic. They were not able to go to Mexico this year, so he brought Mexico to her! He made a Mexican meal and decorated the house so that it had a Mexican ambiance. She was very […]
Showing your Love With This Birthday Tradition
Celebrating your loved ones with words of appreciation. A couple I worked with this past year has a tradition that makes everyone in their family feel like he or she matters. On each person’s birthday, the members of this family say why they love the family member who is celebrating the birthday. It’s been a […]