Having a grateful heart is a wonderful thing. We sometimes have to work to stay positive because it is really easy for our brains to go to the negative. If you are not practicing gratitude on a daily basis now is the time to ramp that up and look at your partner through a different […]
The Attitude of Gratitude
Keeping gratitude at the forefront of your mind is so important. Recently, one of the couples with whom I work shared the story of how they created a paper Gratitude Turkey with their young children in preparation for Thanksgiving. Each day leading up to Thanksgiving, this couple and their children add paper feathers to their […]
Dynamics in Relationships
There are so many dynamics in relationships. Sometimes in relationships, there exists a dynamic where one partner treats the other partner like a child. This might involve conversations that seem to micromanage or it might involve nagging or bringing something up over and over again. In this episode of Coach Kathy’s Clips, Kathy provides some clarification […]
How to Speak Up When You Feel Like a Doormat in Your Relationship
I believe one of the reasons my wife fell in love with me 25 years ago is because I am a very chill guy who is accommodating to her wants and needs. Most of the time I’ll go along with my wife’s ideas. Lately, though, I’m feeling a little taken advantage of by her. When […]
Are You Using This Connection Point?
You should be connecting with your mate every day. This month’s positive point in my work with a couple happened after I taught this particular husband and wife the 5 points of connection to make with one another during the day. These points of connection are designed to strengthen their relationship in the area of […]