I really like what this therapist has to say about infidelity. If you have a chance, I highly recommend you watch the video. The only thing I take issue with is her viewpoint on privacy. In my experience as a relationship coach, when a partner hides an affair that may have occurred years before in hopes that it doesn’t get exposed (which it usually does, eventually), there become two indiscretions: the affair – which is hard enough to deal with – and the fact the person never confessed to it – the compounding factor.
Once you look at the video, let me know what you think by making a comment on my blog!