My husband and I had the good fortune of escaping the snow and ice storms of Cleveland over the past 10 days. We spent our days soaking up vitamin D on the beaches of St. Martin in the Netherland Antilles. While there, Lydia and Peter Bonev, owners of one of our favorite restaurants on the island, Top Carrot, invited me to present a workshop to some of their friends and colleagues who reside on the island. I spent an interactive evening with men and women who came to the workshop to learn several concrete tools they could take back home and use immediately in their relationships. Insightful comments were made and questions were asked and as usually happens, I left the workshop feeling like I learned as much or more as did the people who attended! Thank you Lydia and Peter!