“It’s me. Your wife/husband/significant other.”
Your mate is knocking on your door every single day. He or she is hoping you’ll answer that door, see him or her and acknowledge his or her words and feelings, whether they’re positive or negative.
Feeling invisible in a relationship is the kiss of death. Sure, we all gloss over our mates once in awhile, but if your mate feels chronically unseen and unheard, it’s time to pay attention and answer the door … before your mate stops knocking.