Bumps in your relationship happen…
This month’s positive point occurred with several couples, not just one. This past month I was contacted by 4 couples with whom I had worked in the past. For example, the last time I had seen one couple was in 2015 and another in 2013. What is positive about these couples’ situations is that each of them had hit a bump in their journey as a couple and had the wherewithal to remember to reach out to me for assistance. That’s a success!
There isn’t a couple walking the earth, who although may have “righted” themselves along a bumpy road, won’t hit another pothole now and again. As humans, once we learn new information and develop more helpful habits, we can still have a tendency to slip back into former, unhelpful ways of relating to our mate.
Please know this is in the range of normal – we are not perfect! Sometimes we just need a refresher to help ourselves get back on a smoother path.