Most people who suffer from their mate having an affair don’t consider the possibility that their relationship or marriage can become stronger and better because of the affair. I’m not condoning the idea of having an affair to give your marriage a much needed workout. It takes a lot of pain and energy to come back from an affair. But if an affair happens, it does not have to be the end of a marriage or committed relationship. By far, the best article I’ve read on coming back from an affair is in the May 2011 issue of O Magazine. Whether you’ve just discovered your mate has had an affair or you want to prevent that scenario from happening, I highly recommend you read this article. To read it, click here.