My husband tells me I do something that drives him crazy. He says I make assumptions about what he is thinking and talk to him in statements. For example, he says I say, “So, you want to go out to eat,” or “You think I salt our food too much when cooking.” I’m just saying […]
How to Speak Up When You Feel Like a Doormat in Your Relationship
I believe one of the reasons my wife fell in love with me 25 years ago is because I am a very chill guy who is accommodating to her wants and needs. Most of the time I’ll go along with my wife’s ideas. Lately, though, I’m feeling a little taken advantage of by her. When […]
Transitioning Through Change With Your Mate
Summer was fun with our 3 kids, but we are unashamedly happy they are back in school. The biggest problem with our children starting school again is transitioning from our summer schedule to a more regimented school calendar. My husband and I find ourselves having little patience and snap at each other. Any ideas on […]
Investments and Bills and Financials – Oh My!
It’s not always the easiest to navigate financials in your marriage. My husband pays our bills and is in charge of our investments. He says he’s frustrated with me because I don’t show interest in anything financial. I know he’s in charge and I trust him. Why do I have to get into dealing with […]
8 Tips to Ease Vacation Stress
No one wants to need a vacation from their vacation. Most of my friends look forward to vacationing with their mate and family. Frankly, I dread it. My wife and I inevitably have multiple arguments from the time we lock the door to our home to the time we unlock it again. We can’t seem […]