This month’s Ask Coach Kathy discusses how to have an attitude of gratitude for this very different-looking Thanksgiving. Thanksgiving is just around the corner and I’m really bummed that it’s only going to be me and my husband at the table. We usually have a houseful of 15 people. I’m not feeling very grateful. Any […]
How to improve the sexual intimacy with your partner
This month’s Ask Coach Kathy discusses sexual intimacy and taking the pressure off yourselves. I am seventy-two and my husband is seventy-five. We have always had a very active sex life, but now it seems as though our relationship is reduced to nonsexual physical affection, things like hugging, holding hands, and little kisses now and […]
Should You Resolve an Argument Before Going to Bed
This month’s Ask Coach Kathy discusses whether you should stay up to resolve an issue or if it’s ok to go to bed angry. Sometimes my husband and I will have a disagreement later in the evening. He insists we stay up and resolve the issue. I am often exhausted and become more argumentative. We […]
New Beginnings Can Bring a Fresh Start to Your Relationship
This month’s positive point shares how one couple’s move to a new home sparked a fresh start in their relationship. This month’s positive point with a couple with whom I’m now working came when I received an email from them, saying that because they had moved into a new home in a completely different area, […]
Clearing Resentment in Relationship
This month’s positive point discusses how one couple cleared up resentment that was building in their relationship. This month’s positive point in my work with a client came when one partner met with me alone to share thoughts, feelings, and “concerns” about his relationship with his wife that he had kept in a journal for […]
