This month’s positive point is about the importance of spending real, quality time with your mate. I know each month I usually describe a positive point in the work I do with a couple/client. The only difference is that the couple this month is not a client – it is me and my husband! So, […]
Husband Handyman Problems
This month’s Ask Coach Kathy is about a spouse that is NOT a handyman. My husband is not good with fixing things and it drives me crazy. For just a simple problem with a stopped up drain, we have to call a plumber. To replace a shower head is a huge deal. I’m so frustrated. […]
Rewrite the Story about Your Relationship
A recent Psychology Today blog suggests an idea which I subscribe to whole-heartedly: Change how you Look at your Mate and the Mate you Look at Changes. Research shows that evolutionarily our brains gravitate toward the negative. Cave men and women spent their entire lives assuming some animal, person, or event could kill them. They lived in the “what […]
Relationship Rituals
Do you and your spouse have any relationship rituals that you share together? Recently I was invited to be a guest on Golden Opportunities! You can watch the interview by clicking on the video below. Relationship rituals are habits that you form together and are exclusive to you and your spouse. They aren’t rituals that […]
Do you Laugh Together in Your Relationship?
Laughter in a relationship is as essential as water is to a human body. A sense of humor is good for our mind, body, and soul. A recent article in Bustle.com discusses how laughter improves your relationship. See if any of the following reminds you of your relationship: You and your mate are best friends. Being best […]