Often, when I work with a couple, I hear the complaint, “We have different communication styles.” I understand why having different communication styles can be seen as a negative rather than a positive, because many times opposite communication styles can clash and cause conflict. Not fun. Frankly, most partners walking the planet have different communication […]
Divorce Still Means a Relationship to Maintain
Even though you may not be married to your former spouse anymore, you will still need to communicate with one another when there are children. Most of the time as a relationship coach, I work with couples to help them regain a connection and keep it, emotionally and physically. sometimes, however, couples come to see me who […]
Schedule Time for Your Relationship
Yes, in our busy world, scheduling time for your relationship may be necessary! This month’s positive point in my work with a couple came when the couple realized that one of the tools I gave them from the “tool bag” of 35 tools they are given was indispensable to them. The tool to which I’m […]
Respecting your Mate in Conversation
This month’s Ask Coach Kathy question is about talking over your mate in a conversation and what you can do about it. My husband is a chatterer, story-teller, and an all-around talker. I love that he is like this, however, sometimes he is oblivious to the fact that I am talking and he cuts me […]
4 Levels of Communication in a Relationship
This month on Coach Kathy’s Clips we’re learning about communication levels with your spouse. There are 4 Levels of Communication in a relationship. Each of them matter, but would you know what they are and why they are important? On what level or levels do you and your mate communicate? Watch the video below to […]
