You build trust with your words This month’s positive point in my work with a client happened when a husband, who had made an unflattering comment about his wife to one of her family members, apologized to his wife and to her family member. This went a long way in building trust between them and […]
Looking At Your Mate Through a New Lens
As we start a new year, let’s change the lens in how we see our mates. On Monday, January 17th, I appeared on the morning show, It’s About You, to discuss how we can see our mate through a new lens as we start a new year. We humans are habitual: eating habits, sleeping habits, […]
Practicing Patience When Making Decisions with Your Mate
Not everyone makes decisions the same way. This month’s positive point in working with a couple happened when a woman’s partner surprised her by purchasing a household item she had wanted and for which she had been asking. She heard, “No” several times before the “No” turned into a “Yes.” The “Yes” was a game-changer […]
Being Aware of Negative Habits in Your Relationship
This month’s positive point with a couple revolved around a change in the wife’s awareness of her own behavior choices. She has a habit of blaming, yelling, name-calling, and swearing at her husband. This woman came to the sessions not proud of her behavior but had no clue how to change it. I tell my […]
Jump-start Your Gratitude With This List
The Thanksgiving holiday can be used as a springboard for gratitude to take residence in your life permanently. Because Thanksgiving is around the corner, I thought I would help you jump-start all the reasons you can be grateful. Without sounding like Pollyanna, because I know we all have pain and suffering in our lives, I […]
