Kathy The Coach

  • Home
  • About Kathy
    • Testimonials
    • Media
  • Blog
    • Read Ask Coach Kathy
    • Watch Coach Kathy’s Clips
  • Contact
  • Relationship Coaching
    • Relationship Coaching Fees and Policies
    • What is Relationship Coaching?
  • Become a Coach
  • Speaking
    • Workplace Communication and workshops to build team relationships
    • Kathy Dawson’s Media Appearances
  • Books
  • Free Resources
    • 15 Dates Ideas for Life During Covid
    • 10 Sample Love Texts
    • Free Download: Top 10 Tips for Long Lasting Relationships
    • Free: Family Meeting Guidelines to Improve your relationships
    • 10 Rules of Dating
    • Ask a Relationship Coach – Ask Coach Kathy your Question
Kathy Dawson, Relationship Coach

February 18, 2015 By Kathy Dawson Leave a Comment

Relationships in the News

Clevelands Plain DealerI was recently interviewed for an article that appeared in Cleveland’s Plain Dealer on Sunday, February 8, 2015. The headline of the article is:
Ready to share an apartment with your Valentine? Not so Fast!

The reporter asked me questions about what to look out for if you are considering moving in with your mate. Here are some basic guidelines to consider before making this major life decision:

  • you know it might be time to consider taking the plunge and move under the same roof when one or both of you are spending a lot of your time in the car or plane traveling back and forth to see one another.
  • you know it might be time to move in together if one of you is spending so much time with the other that a house with a mortgage or an apartment with rent to be paid is being wasted because no one is there.
  • one of the most important things to consider before moving in with someone is your motive for doing so. Although the above criteria are things to consider, make sure moving in with a significant other is not purely for financial reasons, convenience, or because you don’t want to be alone. Yes, you will have to work out some practical kinks, but your sole purpose for moving in with someone needs to be because you have reached a level of commitment that reflects your similar values and love for one another, and that your vision for your future together is the same.
  • before setting up house, have a thorough discussion with your mate about each other’s desires on who does what to run and maintain the household, anything from emptying the dishwasher to feeding your pets. Assumptions in this area can rear their ugly heads later.
  • in regards to finances, there needs to be 100% transparency between you and your mate. Reveal your assets, debt, and budget to one another.
  • talk to one another about having your own private space in the house. Whether it’s space to sew, paint, or meditate, each of you needs to carve out room for solitude.
Spread the love
        

Leave a Reply Cancel reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Free eBook!

Pandemic Dates from Kathy DawsonClick here to get your copy!

About Kathy

Kathy Dawson, the leading relationship coach in Northeast Ohio, provides an alternative or supplement to marriage counseling by helping married and engaged couples, as well as divorced and single people, improve their lives by improving their relationships. Kathy specializes in:
  • Couples Coaching
  • Individual Coaching
  • Phone Coaching
  • Skype Coaching

    • Call Kathy at (216) 536-8964 today to find out more about how she can help you and your relationship!
dating advice website Read Kathy's Interview with DatingAdvice.com

Connect With Kathy

  • Facebook
  • Instagram
  • LinkedIn
  • Twitter
  • YouTube

Family Meetings Guideline Ebook

Stop the chaos and hurt feelings during family discussions. Learn how to have productive family meetings with this free guide.
Kathy Dawson Relationship Coach in Cleveland Ohio

Goal Setting With Your Partner

Start the new year on the right foot with your mate. A wonderful way to launch into the new year as a couple is to take the time to set yourselves up for success by talking about your goals for the upcoming year and ensuring that those goals line up with your values.  In this […]

rules of dating

10 Rules of Dating

Rule #1Your date with your mate must be a minimum of 1-1/2 hour long. Rule #2You and your mate must be together alone on your date, without children, family or … Read all the rules...

Kathy’s Books

104 Dates In And Around ClevelandCleveland Couples Diagnosis Married

Copyright © 2023 · Kathy Dawson